Master Toledo's Video of Hypnosis Formula
Check out Free Hypnosis Video Workshops
Mei Mei has 25 years Experience with Sales Motivation and People Relations Experience. Master Toledo has asked her to Share her Experience and Wisdom in Mei Mei's Corner of our Web Site !
Master Toledo has asked me many times to put me on his Web Site as "Mei Mei's Corner" to share my Life Experience or Sharing Good Thoughts. I am Honored.
Adversity
"What makes people Happy or Unhappy"
I can say that is a Big Deal in Life. Oviously if you are a Happy person you will have a much Happier Life. And vise a versa. So what makes a Person Happy or Unhappy? I guess one of the reasons is: it is in their genes. I was lucky, since I was born as long as I can remember; I am just a Happy person. A lot of times the things that make people unhappy but to me it's like: Why? People often ask me why you are so Happy?
I guess there is nothing wrong with a person who is happy and there is nothing wrong with a person who is unhappy. It is however you Feel and that is important. Some people can be an unhappy person, and I am sure they are a Wonderful person inside. Maybe they were born with cells/gene makes them unhappy.
I was very lucky and I am very humble to say that I am happy and lucky to have a happy personality. What comes to my Mind is Why am I a happier person? I guess one of the reason is: I enjoy to see other people Happy.
Master Toledo always says,"In all things if you don't mind, it don't matter" ! As you know, a lot of times people do mind on certain things. But like I say they are Wonderful people, they just think different. We can not penalize them because they are who they are.
The older I get the more I realize and understand more of different Personalities in my Life, for that I thank God gave me a good Father. My Father gave me the Greatest Inspiration, it really helped along the road of my life, I can't think of any other person that can be as gentle but Powerful, Intelligent like my Father. I remember he always ask my Mom; don't punish the kids when they make a mistake. Sit down, communicate with them. Take your time, no rush.
But of course my Mother is not that kind of person (lol) Again, nothing wrong with her, it is just every person is different. But I do enjoy and I am Honored to have the top notch human relation lesson from my Father, just the way when he sit there, take his time, and explain everything Why when you do this the consequence is this or that. I am just so fortunate, blessed to have a Father like him.
Sometimes when I look at him I know how hard he works, but he always keeps the Happy Attitude. He does not complain, like many other people they hardly work but they complain so much. (lol) So I am glad I have the opportunity to meet someone Great like my Father!
To finish my first "Sharing Good Thoughts", I will close with, "Life is so Precious", and we all know that. We just need to have awareness of how to make better (not worse?), like I say the choices is ours. You can chose either or, and if you don't know how, find a Mentor who can guide you. Don't stay in the corner and not ask for help, because Life is Wonderful, so stay patient and reach out and Stay in the Happy Zone!
Take good care, talk to you soon,
Mei Mei
"Thought of Forgiveness"
Hi Everyone,
After I completed my first "Sharing Good Thoughts", it brings me back to the memory lane of when my Father was alive. He has been gone since 1995. But as most of you know they are always here. Their Spirit, their Positive Energy, just never go away. It's Wonderful!
I think about him all the time. I've learn how wonderful the Good Influence can be from your Parents, or your Brother, Sister or your good friends. The Power of good Influence is immeasurable. You cannot measure the Influence that People can give you. The only things is that sometimes you might depend on the Influence a little too much, so the key is knowing where is the fine line in everything in Life and create your own good life.
One of the things my Father always told me is: Have Forgiveness in your heart!
When I was younger I did not quite understand the meaning of " forgiveness", I always thought that forgiveness is when you forgive someone else's mistake, and you are doing that person a favor by forgive them. But the older I get, the more I understand that when we forgive, we are the one that has the most benefit or have the most Impact when we forgive someone.
I think Forgiveness is Huge in our life. Now when I think about forgiveness, it is Love. I mean if you don't Love people, how can you forgive them, and it is full of Passion, Patience and Kindness. It is a Greatest Thing! I also Believe when we forgive is best do it with a Pure Heart.
The fact is in our life we will all make mistakes. Lost count how many mistakes I have made in my Lifetime. I think forgiveness goes a long way, when we can also learn to forgive ourselves, and knowing that is super important, because a lot of times when we make mistakes, we actually forgot to forgive ourselves, than we become an unhappy person because of that. So I believe when we think about "forgiveness", it is good to understand how very important to forgive others as well as forgive ourselves too.
And I think after we forgive our Self or forgive someone, it is kind of like you make a Closure to that situation. Once you make that Closure, Life will go on with much more Positive Energy. I understand, sometimes some people may not have the Heart to forgive someone that did something really really bad to them. But I don't know if is really worth it to hold that against that person or that situation. Because when you really think about it, who will be the one gets hurt the most when we don't forgive?
That is my Thought of Forgiveness. I know a lot of times it is so easy to say, oh yeah forgive, forgive, forgive. But when we really get into the Deep Meaning of this Forgiveness, when we Understand How to do it, Why we do it, when we Understand Everyone on Earth makes Mistakes OFTEN and so when we Understand How to Forgive others as well as How to Forgive our Self, I Believe Life will be easier for you.
The bottom line is we all want to be Happy 
, I know this is one of the most important things we need to have Knowledge about, and I feel this is something if we can learn when we are young, and I think our Parents (or the person who raise you) should be the best Person to show us How and actually Demonstrate the "how to" process of this Powerful Force in Life which is Forgiveness, than there will be endless Happiness for everyone to enjoy and share! Just remember that everything we learn when we are younger, it will be a big plus when we are growing up.
I will close for now. I would love for you to learn and to enjoy the benefit of Forgive others and to Forgive Your Self .
Take good care and talk soon.
Mei Mei
